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Baldur's Gate 3 offers a rich tapestry of romance options, enhancing the game's immersive experience. Whether you're seeking a deep, long-term connection or a fleeting encounter, the game caters to a variety of romantic preferences. This guide provides a comprehensive walkthrough for each romance option, ensuring you don't miss out on any potential relationships.
All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3
### Romance in BG3 Explained:
In Baldur's Gate 3, romance is inclusive, allowing every character to be romanced regardless of their sex or your character's traits. The game offers two main types of romance: short-term and long-term. The nature of these relationships varies greatly depending on the character and your goals. Some characters are open to one-night stands, while others require a more prolonged courtship.
Be aware that certain actions can lock you out of multiple romance options. Timely completion of specific tasks and maintaining exclusivity can be crucial. Most companion NPCs can be romanced, but each relationship will alter your experience with them, making it impossible to explore every romance in a single playthrough. Below, we delve into the specifics of each romance option.
All Romance Options:
The following companion characters can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:
- Shadowheart
- Gale
- Astarion
- Karlach
- Wyll
- Lae'zel
- Halsin
- Minthara
For short-term romance, the following non-companion characters are available:
- Mizora
- Guardian/Emperor
- Drow Twins
- Haarlep
- Naoise Nallinto
How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3
Shadowheart is often the first companion you'll encounter, making her a prominent romance option. Her journey intertwines deeply with the game's plot, adding a unique layer to your experience.
Shadowheart can be romanced both long-term and short-term, with opportunities in every act. To start a romance in Act I, keep her in your party and focus on boosting her approval by showing kindness, non-violence, and respecting her privacy. A significant boost can be gained by siding with her against Lae'zel. Once your approval is high, look for the "...missed a chance to connect" dialogue or engage with her during the camp party after rescuing Halsin. Choose to share a bottle with her and spend the evening together, leading to a romantic walk and a kiss. In subsequent acts, continue supporting her choices, whether she sides with Selune or Shar, and complete her quest in Act III to unlock the final romantic scene.
Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:
Shadowheart may end the relationship if you pursue other romances, though this isn't always the case. In Honor Mode, it's best to remain exclusive to avoid complications.
How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3
Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, is another character whose romance can significantly impact the game's narrative. To romance him, rescue him from the portal northeast of the crash site and comply with his requests to consume magical items. In Act I, join him for a magic lesson and choose the romantic dialogue options. Be supportive during the Elminster cutscene before transitioning to Act II. In Act III, keep him alive, read "The Annals of Karsus," and speak with him before resting, choosing the romantic options to unlock the final scene.
Gale Romance Special Notes:
Gale is not open to an open relationship and will be unhappy if you romance other characters.
How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3
Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular choice for romance. To romance him, add him to your party early and choose self-serving options to boost his approval. Allow him to drink your blood for a significant boost. During the party, engage with him and choose dialogue options that lead to a romantic scene, letting him bite you. In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about his scars, and in Act III, complete his quest to unlock the final romantic scenes, where you can choose whether to let him complete the ritual.
Astarion Romance Special Notes:
Astarion is the most open-minded long-term partner and won't get truly angry if you have other romantic encounters.
How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3
Karlach's romance is rewarding but challenging to initiate. Side with her against the fake Paladins of Tyr and add her to your party early. Collect Infernal Iron to help her with Dammon, the blacksmith, and express your desire to touch her. During the party, express your feelings and find a way to kiss her by cooling her off with water. In Act II, continue helping her with Infernal Iron, and in Act III, take her on a date.
Karlach Romance Special Notes:
Karlach is very sensitive about exclusivity and will get angry if you sleep with other characters. However, you can redeem yourself with the right approach.
How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3
Wyll's romance enhances his storyline. Build his approval by acting heroically, helping others, and supporting him in his quests. Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove to unlock the romance option during the party. In Act II, engage in a romantic dance with him, and in Act III, help him save his father and complete his task with the dragon Ansur to unlock the final romantic encounter.
How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3
Lae'zel's romance can be short-term or long-term. Raise her approval by acting decisively and aggressively. Mention her interest in you at camp to initiate a one-night stand. Maintain her approval for a night visit in Act II, where she'll challenge you to a duel. In Act III, your relationship's outcome depends on her allegiance to Vlaakith or Orpheus.
Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:
Lae'zel is not open to multiple partners and will end the relationship if you cheat after the duel.
How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3
Halsin's romance requires completing his quests before the end of Act II. Rescue him from the Goblin Camp, help him locate Thaniel, and keep him in your party, promoting kindness and reverence for nature. Exhaust his dialogue options daily, focusing on his past lovers. Once his approval is high, he'll visit you at night, asking about other relationships. Shadowheart and Astarion will be okay with it, but Karlach and Gale will not.
How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3
Minthara's romance is unique, often associated with an evil playthrough. To romance her, side with her against the Emerald Grove, betraying your party. After defeating the grove, express your honor in fighting beside her and open your mind to her. At the subsequent goblin party, tell her you are hers, and she'll join you in bed. Note that some players claim you can now knock her out at the Goblin Camp and rescue her in Act II, but this has not been confirmed.
Minthara Romance Special Notes:
Choosing the evil route will significantly alter your game experience, causing tension with other party members.
All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3
### How to Romance Mizora:
Ensure Wyll is in your party and rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony in Act II. In Act III, speak to her at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation. When she visits your camp, engage in the romantic dialogue to trigger the scene.
How to Romance the Guardian:
Choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor between Acts II and III, evolve into Half-Ilithid, and learn about their past lover. Engage positively with their advances to trigger the romance scene.
How to Romance the Drow Twins:
Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing in Act III, speak to Mamzell Amira, and either complete a quest or pay directly to access the twins' chambers.
How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:
Reach the House of Hope, cross the Mystic Force Curtain, and engage with Haarlep. Be aware of potential consequences if you're in a relationship, especially with Karlach.
How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:
Visit Sharess' Caress, unlock the door at the top of the stairs, and engage with Naoise after defeating the Mindflayer to trigger a brief romantic scene.
